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In the Middle

Coping with aging parents, growing kids and everything in the middle

Linda Lombroso

Linda LombrosoBaby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, but left to pursue a master’s degree in elementary education. Shortly afterward, she returned to magazines as an editor at US magazine, but again left the field, this time for the birth of her first child. Linda and her family moved from Manhattan to New Rochelle in 1988. After spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother, she joined The Journal News as a police reporter in 1997. She’s been a Life & Style writer since 2000. Her kids range in age from 15 to 21.

E-mail Linda Lombroso at llombros@lohud.com

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Disturbing or smart?

October
29

As someone who dealt with a funeral home last year, I know how uncomfortable the whole  business can be.

So when I heard on the radio that Walmart started selling caskets online, I was mildly intrigued.

I’m happy to hear they won’t be having casket displays in their stores. But I guess it’s time big retailers started [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 29th, 2009 | 1 Comment »

Free Medicare help

October
27

The Westchester Library System and the Medicare Rights Center have partnered to present a series of free programs aimed at helping older adults navigate the Medicare maze.

The programs will be presented in November and December at the Grinton I. Will Library in Yonkers and the Yorktown Community and Cultural Center.

Above, Flo Brodley, a Medicare Rights [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 27th, 2009 | Post a Comment »

New takes on old notions

October
23

Most of us grew up with the same advice about cold weather (it can make you sick), brainpower (we only use 10 percent) and water (drink 8 glasses a day).

Well, the new issue of AARP The Magazine features a story that refutes those claims, and more.

Click here for the link.

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 23rd, 2009 | Post a Comment »

Waning days of motherhood…

October
21

Feeling a little old lately.  The baby got his driver’s license.

When the older kids passed their road tests, I still had this little guy to drive around. Now he doesn’t need me anymore.

Of course this is not completely true. He can drive, when he has access to a car, no later than 9 p.m. And [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 21st, 2009 | 2 Comments »

Long-life eating, part II

October
19

As I’m learning more about Calorie Restriction and its possible connection to a longer lifespan, I’ve had some  interesting discussions with friends and relatives.

If you found out you could live, let’s say, 10 years longer by avoiding all your favorite foods for the rest of your life, would you do it? What about five years, [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 19th, 2009 | 1 Comment »

Eating for longevity

October
16

This afternoon, I am meeting a couple who eat in a way that researchers believe may prolong life.

Paul McGlothin and Meredith Averill, who live in Westchester, are proponents of living the CR Way. It’s a lifestyle that involves reducing calories while optimizing choices, focusing on foods that are nutrient rich but not loaded with calories. [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 16th, 2009 | Post a Comment »

Helping out

October
14

I just interviewed two local women who have written a book called “Do Good: 201 Ways to Lend a Hand.’’

The book, by Marcy Silverman and Cindy Sacks,  is filled with common-sense tips that most of us already know. But how often do we really go out of our way to phone a friend in need [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 14th, 2009 | 2 Comments »

Computer tips from Carol Brady!

October
13

If your parent is having trouble learning how to use the computer, you may want to check out a new program created by actress Florence Henderson.

Henderson, who is in her seventies, confessed on the Today show this morning that she used to be terrified of the computer. Now she’s a Facebook pro who Skypes, downloads [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 13th, 2009 | Post a Comment »

Senior Law Day

October
8

Tomorrow is the last day to register for the 10th annual Senior Law Day, coming to the Westchester County Center on Oct. 15.

The event, run by the county’s Department of Senior Programs and Services, will offer presentations from experts in elder law, financial planning and caregiving. It is free and open to the public.

There will [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 8th, 2009 | Post a Comment »

Screening caregivers

October
7

I was at the doctor’s office yesterday when an older man arrived with his caregiver for an appointment.

He had neglected to bring his insurance card. All his caregiver had was his Social Security number, a dangerous bit of information if it gets into the wrong hands.

As it turned out, the caregiver emptied the man’s wallet [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 7th, 2009 | 1 Comment »

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About this blog

We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


About the author
Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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