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In the Middle

Coping with aging parents, growing kids and everything in the middle

Linda Lombroso

Linda LombrosoBaby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, but left to pursue a master’s degree in elementary education. Shortly afterward, she returned to magazines as an editor at US magazine, but again left the field, this time for the birth of her first child. Linda and her family moved from Manhattan to New Rochelle in 1988. After spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother, she joined The Journal News as a police reporter in 1997. She’s been a Life & Style writer since 2000. Her kids range in age from 15 to 21.

E-mail Linda Lombroso at llombros@lohud.com

Entries written by Linda Lombroso

Boomer game

October
12

Haven’t actually seen this product yet, but The Baby Boomer Retirement Game looks like amusing party fare for all those nights we’ll be spending at home.

The game (click here) is like Trivial Pursuit for aging hipsters. Okay, let me rephrase that. It’s probably a lot of fun, and surely not as depressing as those infomercials [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 12th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Some I.D. please?

October
11

Here’s the scenario: Your 21-year-old brings home a group of college friends. They’re drinking beer in the den. You say hello, introduce yourself to the ones you’ve never met—and then stare a few minutes at one of the kids, who’s got the gangly, baby-faced look of someone who just started shaving. What do you do? [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 11th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

What I learned…

October
6

If you’ve been reading this blog regularly, you probably noticed I haven’t posted in a while.

I didn’t think I’d be ready to come back to it today. But even though the past two weeks have been pretty miserable (and included a funeral), I hope my experiences can help those of you with difficult days ahead.

Here [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on October 6th, 2008 | 5 Comments »

End-of-life care

September
16

I’m sitting in a beautiful room in a place that looks like a country inn. The rooms are carpeted, there’s free TV and Internet and you can make as many phone calls as you want, all at no charge.

Go down the hall and there’s free coffee, a big platter of fresh fruit and a living [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on September 16th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Epilogue

September
12

A few days ago, I was driving back from visiting my parents, and thinking about the sadness that follows the death of a spouse, when I turned on the car radio to hear author Anne Roiphe talking about her new book, “Epilogue.” Uncanny timing!

Roiphe was widowed after her husband of nearly 40 years died of [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on September 12th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Using your head

September
10

There’s nothing new about middle-aged men trying to camouflage their bald spots.

Before it became cool to be bald (as in totally head-shaved bald, not hair-on-the-sides bald), there were toupees and combovers. Then came Rogaine and Propecia and hair transplants.
But in New Zealand, there’s finally a way for bald men to capitalize on their rooftop hairlessness.

Check [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on September 10th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Women in transition

September
8

If you’re at that stage in your life where everything is suddenly changing, check out the new Women in Transition series starting this week at the North Castle Public Library in Armonk.

The series, which kicks off at 7 p.m. Wednesday (Sept. 10), aims to connect women who are caring for kids and aging parents, trying [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on September 8th, 2008 | Post a Comment »

Oh, no! Mom jeans!

September
4

Did any of you read the New York Observer piece about people and their e-mail addresses?

If you missed it, click here to read it.

Anyway, there’s a mention of certain people (hmmm) whose outdated e-mail addresses are the online equivalent of Mom jeans!

In other words, if you’re like me and stlll have an AOL account, you’re [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on September 4th, 2008 | 2 Comments »

Back to school

September
3

With one sick parent and three kids back in school, and oh yes, a job — and a husband — I’ve been pulled in a million different directions lately. And the bad thing is, being stretched so thin seems to benefit nobody.

I go to visit my father but I can’t stay as long as [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on September 3rd, 2008 | 4 Comments »

Summer assignments

August
27

If you have more than one kid, you’re probably like me: strictest with the first-born, a little looser with the second and somewhat laid back with the third. Relatively speaking of course. (The youngest continually tells me I am way too nervous and controlling, and that all his friends do whatever they want.)

Anyway, the point [...]

Posted by Linda Lombroso on August 27th, 2008 | 5 Comments »

About this blog

We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


About the author
John Delcos Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, but left to pursue a master's degree in elementary education. Shortly afterward, she returned to magazines as an editor at US magazine, but again left the field, this time for the birth of her first child. Linda and her family moved from Manhattan to New Rochelle in 1988. After spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother, she joined The Journal News as a police reporter in 1997. She's been a Life & Style writer since 2000. This is the only year her three children are teenagers at the same time, which means she undergoes a daily critique of hair, makeup and wardrobe. Her parents still live in Port Washington Ñ and they like everything she wears.

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