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Men who cook, part II

September
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Here’s a little behind-the-scenes stuff that didn’t make it into my story in today’s paper about four local men who cook Rosh Hashana dinner for their families.

In each case, I met the men in person, at their homes, and saved the age question for last.

But in every  instance, the men were more than happy to tell me their ages — and yes, they were all over 50.

If I had been interviewing women in this age bracket, I know I would have encountered some resistance.

Isn’t that unfortunate? When it comes to two numbers — age and weight — women are so reluctant to spill the truth. Believe me, I get it. But what does this say about our society?

This entry was posted on Wednesday, September 16th, 2009 at 4:52 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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3 Responses to “Men who cook, part II”

  1. Steve C.

    Well I don’t celebrate the holiday. But I am a man that cooks the dinner for the family almost everyday. I am 45 and was taught how to cook at aged 10.
    I am always re-inventing how I cook things that I have cooked , to find a better more consistent way. But Also I like t change the taste of certain meals at times..

    Just my 3 cents.

  2. Linda Lombroso

    Steve-I think it’s really great that you make dinner for your family. I’m sure it is much appreciated!

  3. mari

    No one will ever know my weight, but my age. I am 52. I earned it. Everyone is always shocked that I am a gramma when they meet me. Believe me I do not look that young, but I seem younger by my attitude. I try to be happy most of the time and that makes me appear younger to other people. My mom always looked forward to 5 years ahead, why, I don’t know. She was always excited to see the future. She was always happy and everyone always thought she looked younger than she was. It worked for her and I hope it keeps working for me!

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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


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Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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