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In the Middle

Coping with aging parents, growing kids and everything in the middle

Sandwich weekend

June
29

I had the full sandwich experience this weekend: Spent three days on Long Island helping my mother, who had hand surgery Friday, while trying to manage the teenage situation at home remotely. That was the hard part.

“Everything’s fine,’’ said my son, who actually did the dishes and fed the dog, but at other times was missing in action, his cell phone dead and the home phone ringing endlessly.

Of course it didn’t help that my husband was on another of his international trips, the frequency of which has caused friends to suspect he’s in the Mossad. (He’s not. I mean, I don’t think he is. I would know, right?)

My teenage son wasn’t entirely alone in the house. His sister was home from college, so there was some supervision and a nighttime presence. But it’s not the same as my being there to make sure no mischief goes on.

Do I sound like a tyrant? I’m not. Just felt a little torn between trying to make sure everybody was okay on both ends of the sandwich.

But I’m very happy to report my mother is an excellent patient and was feeling so good two days after surgery that she was back to her speedy Mario Andretti maneuvers, just like old times. We even made it to Macy’s.

Tonight I plan on concentrating on the most neglected part of the whole sandwich: the house that I live in. I’ll let you know how that goes…

This entry was posted on Monday, June 29th, 2009 at 6:29 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


About the author
Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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