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Family history

June
9

Last weekend, my mother showed me the notes she’d taken during an “interview” with her father, my grandfather, who was one of the few people in his family to have outwitted the Nazis. He died in 1989 when he was 93.

My mother is also a Holocaust survivor. When I visited her, she showed me a DNA kit that she’d ordered from the DNA Shoah Project , which is building a data base of genetic material from Holocaust survivors and their immediate descendants.

As it says on the Web site, the project is being done “in hopes of reuniting families disrupted by the Shoah (“Holocaust” in Hebrew). The Project aims to match displaced relatives, provide Shoah orphans and lost children with information about their biological families and, eventually, assist in the forensic identification of Holocaust-era remains.”

I helped my mother collect the DNA sample (from her cheek) and she answered a questionnaire that included information about the missing relatives she’s hoping to find. Her sister was 16 when she disappeared in Poland during the war, and she was never heard from again.

Anyway, this looks to be a promising project. Pass it along if you know anyone who’d be interested in this.

And yes, next time I plan to interview my mother and take careful notes. Have you talked to your parents about your family history?

This entry was posted on Tuesday, June 9th, 2009 at 6:19 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


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Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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