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Coping with aging parents, growing kids and everything in the middle

Milestone birthdays

June
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Just spoke to a friend who’s turning 50 this year. He’s suddenly nervous about saving for retirement, even though he’s working, healthy and years away from leaving his job.

But I understand the feeling. Most of us have goals in place for milestone birthdays, especially the 50th.

Later this week, I’ll introduce you to a local resident who’s also turning 50 this year and has decided he must lose weight before his birthday. He’s started dieting and exercising and is focused and serious about his goal.

I’m no stranger to the milestone goal. At 30, I was going to have my book published. At 40, it was definitely going to be a bestseller. I don’t want to talk about this anymore. It’s too depressing.

Anyway, I’m curious about your birthday goals. Do you find yourself achieving them?

This entry was posted on Monday, June 1st, 2009 at 12:11 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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4 Responses to “Milestone birthdays”

  1. Steve C.

    I turned 45 yesterday. aint that a milestone?

  2. momanon

    Happy belated birthday, Steve.

    I don’t have milestones – I keep a running list. A “bucket list” of sorts. I have all kinds of things I’d like to accomplish and/or try in my lifetime, and every January 1st I take the list out and adjust it. Check off the stuff I managed to do, delete things that may no longer interest me or may be too dangerous (I recently crossed off skydiving – what was I thinking?)and maybe add one thing that has come up that really interests me. The list changes every year. Why wait for the next five year increment? Do it now. Life is short.

  3. Steve C.

    so true. as i usually tell people. You only die once, live while you can!

    I too have been doing some new stuff.. hope to keep with the trend!

  4. Ingrid

    Anyone where I can start my own blog.

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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


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Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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