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Coping with aging parents, growing kids and everything in the middle

The great beyond

May
14

My father has been hanging around with Paul Newman lately.

At least I’d like to think so. My father died a day before Newman did, and it makes me feel better to think he’s doing a lot of socializing with celebrities these days. Sometimes I imagine he’s playing drums with Buddy Rich or talking politics with all those great liberal intellectuals he lives with now.

Of course he still listens to Brian Lehrer on WNYC. That’s a great advantage of the afterlife. You get all the channels for free.

Want to hear something even more compelling?  I know my father, whose name was Stan, was at his grandson’s college graduation at Yankee Stadium yesterday. Here’s the proof: As we walked toward the car, we passed four or five shops that were all called Stan the Man or Stan the something. Any psychic will tell you that’s a clear sign from the great beyond.

My family still laughs when I tell them my father sent me a cryptic message through the display panel on the microwave. But I understood exactly what he was talking about.

You can call me crazy. I’ve got a better idea: if Joanne Woodward telephones to say Paul has been talking all  about his new friend Stan, will you believe me then?

This entry was posted on Thursday, May 14th, 2009 at 1:00 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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2 Responses to “The great beyond”

  1. Glory Be

    I do believe that those who were very important to us don’t leave us entirely because they know how much they were cherished and come back to us when they can. The “visits” are brief, but the luckiest among us are enveloped by them.

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  2. Steve C.

    Which college?
    Stan the Man Musial..

    I believe in signs. why not?

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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


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Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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