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Mother load

December
6

Wasn’t it Freud who blamed everything on mothers?

I couldn’t help but think of that this morning, when I saw an eager TV reporter grab the mother of Robert Hawkins, the shooter who opened fire yesterday in an Omaha shopping mall. (See the story “here”:http://www.lohud.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20071206/NEWS05/712060451.)

“Did you do everything you could to help him?’’ asked the reporter. “Did you try your best?”

The mother could hardly speak. She said she’d tried, but apparently not hard enough.

What happened yesterday is heartbreaking.

Losing your son — and knowing he caused the death of eight other people — is unthinkable. I’m sure she’ll be asking herself forever if she could have done anything to stop him.

She didn’t need a reporter for that.

This entry was posted on Thursday, December 6th, 2007 at 3:13 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


About the author
Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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