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In the Middle

Coping with aging parents, growing kids and everything in the middle

It’s never too late

April
6

One of the latest literary success stories comes from an unlikely source: 96-year-old first-time author Harry Bernstein.

His book, “The Invisible Wall: A Love Story That Broke Barriers”:http://www.randomhouse.ca/catalog/display.pperl?isbn=9780345495808 — published by Ballantine Books — is a 320-page memoir that tells of the separation between Christians and Jews in Bernstein’s childhood home town in northern England.

And he didn’t start writing it until he was 93.

When I read a review of Bernstein’s book earlier this week, I couldn’t help but feel energized. Here was a man who decided he was going to write the story of his life — spurred on, he says, by a sense of loneliness and desperation after the death of his wife of nearly 70 years — and he didn’t let his age stop him. He also told reporters he’s working on his second book, and that he already has the publisher signed on.

Even if you’re not a writer, it’s hard not to be inspired by Bernstein’s success. There are plenty of us who have unfulfilled dreams, and who wonder if it’s too late for second chances.

Sometimes I wish I had gone to medical school or become an Olympic athlete. The truth is I’ve never been athletic — I think I set the record for my elementary school’s shortest long jump — and I don’t have the stomach or the decisiveness for a career in medicine.

But isn’t it nice to know we still have options? And that, for the most part, the world of possibility is wide open?

I had always planned on having my first novel published before I turned 50. It’s not happening. But reading about Harry Bernstein and his literary success is hugely inspiring to me — and I imagine many others feel the same way.

What do you think? Are there some dreams you’re still chasing?

This entry was posted on Friday, April 6th, 2007 at 12:36 pm by Linda Lombroso.
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We've been called "the sandwich generation" and with good reason. Most of today's baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) are dealing with aging parents and college-age kids -- or starting again as empty nesters, adapting to a new life without children at home.


In the Middle will address a variety of topics, including caring for aging parents (medical, ethical, emotional and financial issues) and caring for parents long-distance (what do we do when parents live out of state, or are citizens of another country and we can't bring them to the U.S. for medical care?).


It will also cover the way we deal with the financial and emotional demands of our teenage and young-adult children. Middle age also presents its own "crises": How do we handle that first mailing from AARP? Preventive health screenings (like colonoscopies and bone-density tests)? What are the dating options for those who find themselves single in middle age?


In the Middle will explore all these topics and more, as we share resources and learn from each other's experiences.


About the author
Linda Lombroso Baby boomer Linda Lombroso was born in Queens and grew up in Port Washington. She began her journalism career at New York Magazine and Rolling Stone, and came back to the field after spending 10 years as a stay-at-home mother. Linda joined The Journal News in 1997 and has been a Life & Style writer since 2000. She has three children.

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